An exchange year truly is more than just a year, it’s a life in a year.
I remember the moment on August 15th when I said goodbye to my family, my home, and everything familiar. It felt like stepping into the unknown, which was both exciting and daunting. When I finally arrived in New York City for orientation, it was a dream come true.
However, just a few days later on August 18th, my plans took an unexpected turn when my flight to Denver was canceled. That day was incredibly difficult for me; being on another continent with uncertainty looming felt overwhelming. After two long days in New Jersey, I finally found a way to reach my destination, but I learned that even setbacks can lead to new beginnings. This journey has been filled with ups and downs, but every moment has shaped my experience in profound ways.
My first day of school was both exciting and overwhelming, especially since I was there primarily for the audition for the drama play. It’s a challenge that many don’t often discuss—the search for friendship in a new environment. Everyone seems to be settled in their bubbles with friends they’ve known for years, making it feel hard at times. I felt a huge sense of relief and joy when I finally found a friend group, even though the journey to get there was difficult. It truly makes a difference to connect with others, and I’m grateful for that experience.
Since I’ve arrived, I’ve noticed so many positive changes in my life. The school environment feels incredibly different—back in Germany, we had 14 classes per semester, while here there are just 8. I appreciate having more choices; it makes me feel independent and empowered. The teachers here are also much more supportive, especially during tests. In Germany, they often remind you that they can’t assist during the test, but here, they genuinely help students, which is such a relief. Plus, being allowed to use notes is a welcome change that isn’t common back home.
One of the biggest highlights of my life in the USA so far was celebrating my very first Thanksgiving. It was a true joy to share delicious food with everyone—I felt so grateful for the experience.
As the Christmas season approaches, I must admit it’s tough not having my family with me. I know many exchange students feel the same way, but it’s comforting to remember that we can support each other through this time.
The differences between the USA and Germany are striking—I find the people here to be remarkably friendly. It’s so heartwarming to hear compliments and to be asked how you’re doing; such kindness feels much more common here. The overall politeness and openness are totally recharging, and it’s lovely to receive comments about my outfit in places like the restroom—it’s not something you’d typically experience in Germany.
I feel so grateful for the chance to grow into myself in this new world, and to create a second home.